Just yesterday, I embarked on a writing journey with the intention of delving into the impact of social media on our mental well-being. However, as I delved into the topic, I quickly realized that there are moments in life when far more formidable challenges take center stage. On these days, the issues of the digital world can seem inconsequential in comparison. So, today, I'd like to pivot towards a more personal and intimate discussion, where I'll candidly share some of my own struggles and the strategies I employ to safeguard my mental well-being during trying times.
Life, as we all know, is a complex tapestry woven with threads of triumphs and tribulations. Just this morning, I had a “bad moment” as I submitted an assignment past its due date (a rare occurrence, I assure you). I've also grappled with the intricacies of relationships and the relentless demands of life's multifaceted commitments. There are days when it feels as though the universe conspires to challenge us in every possible way. Nevertheless, within the midst of this chaos, I've uncovered a wealth of wisdom and developed a set of habits and strategies that have assisted me in navigating the all-consuming feelings that often accompany challenging days.
1. The Embrace of Self-Compassion
In the throes of adversity, it's natural to castigate oneself for perceived failings. I confess, I am no stranger to this. But, in these moments, I've learned the profound significance of self-compassion. Extend to yourself the same gentle understanding you would proffer to a cherished confidant, recognizing that to err is human.
2. The Sanctuary of Self-Care
The practice of self-care, oft overlooked, wields profound influence over our mental fortitude. Be it immersing oneself in the pages of a beloved tome, strolling amidst nature's bounty, engaging in mindfulness, or simply indulging in a pause, prioritize those activities that rekindle your spirit.
3. The Prudent Management of Commitments
Overwhelm, born from an excess of commitments, is a formidable adversary to our inner calm. Consider a strategic retreat to reassess your obligations. Can tasks be delegated or postponed? The power of "no" can be a benevolent ally in reclaiming equilibrium.
4. The Quest for Wisdom Amidst Trials
Every tribulation, no matter how daunting, presents a hidden trove of wisdom. In times of struggle, I invite you to reflect upon these experiences. What lessons can be drawn from submitting an assignment late, over-reacting when parenting, or navigating the complexities in your relationships? How might these lessons sculpt a more resilient self?
To sum it all up, the secret to keeping your mental well-being intact during tough times boils down to how you respond. It's about being kind to yourself, leaning on friends and family for support, taking good care of yourself, managing your commitments wisely, learning from your experiences, appreciating the little things, and keeping your expectations in check.
Just know, my dear reader, that when life gets tough, you're not alone. There's always someone ready to lend a helping hand if you reach out. Together, we can build a community that supports each other on our journey to better mental health, one step at a time. Eckert Centre is ready to partner with you too. Caring for families is what we are all about.
Madison is a Psychology Assistant; Digital Marketing Assistant at Eckert Centre. She is a university student majoring in psychology at the University of British Columbia. She is our blogger in residence, and we are grateful she is sharing her writing skills along with her mental health journey. May her young wisdom help all of us grow our “Wise Self.” For more information or to book an appointment, visit www.eckertcentre.com or email our team at info@eckert- psychology.com